Inspired by this article from Words of Women, I decided to ask friends to take part in the questionnaire. It’s been so fun reading their answers and I’m excited to share them every Wednesday. If you want to participate, send me an email at aeallen (at) gmail (dot) com.
About the list of 20 questions by Sophie Calle:
Sophie Calle is a French writer, photographer, installation artist, and conceptual artist. Calle’s work is distinguished by its use of arbitrary sets of constraints, and evokes the French literary movement of the 1960s known as Oulipo. Her work frequently depicts human vulnerability, and examines identity and intimacy. She is recognized for her detective-like ability to follow strangers and investigate their private lives. Her photographic work often includes panels of text of her own writing. (Words of Women)
This week, I have a fantastic questionnaire from Lena S., a coworker-turned-friend. Lena is never without a smile, has a great laugh, and is a super rad human all-around. Let’s get to it!
When did you last die?
This is the first question but I left it unanswered till the end. And still don’t know what to say. Maybe I am not spiritual enough to form an adequate response.
What gets you out of bed in the morning?
The prospect of a good day ahead. I’ve realized that it’s on me to either plan at least one thing I can get excited about or get excited about one thing I have planned. Both work.
What became of your childhood dreams?
I’m very bad at remembering specific things from my childhood. Like when I read memories and people write about something that happened when they were five in vivid detail, I just can’t help thinking they can’t possibly remember that! I’m haven’t ever been someone who sets hard goals… more “whatever happens, I’ll be okay with”
What sets you apart from everyone else?
Maybe my willingness to change my opinion when presented with convincing arguments. Also I’ve never been someone to hold a grudge.
What is missing from your life?
Meditation! I am convinced it would help my mental well-being a lot but have yet to make the time to integrate it into my life. I’ve already downloaded the Headspace app. So we’ll see.
Do you think that everyone can be an artist?
Where do you come from? Do you find your lot an enviable one?.
I’m from the outskirts of Hamburg, from I a town I think is utterly boring and lacks character. We bought my childhood home and the property it is on from my grandfather. He and my dad then had a feud that spanned decades over the backyard which was resolved last year. So now it’s actually quite nice and spacious there… Alas, it is still in that same town, so I would not consider it enviable. I’m not even sure that was the question, so…
What have you given up?
Time… carefreeness.. and the ability to play The Sims for hours on end without feeling guilty. Which, I guess goes hand in hand with the other two.
What do you do with your money?
Spend it on food, for the most part.
What household task gives you the most trouble?
Dusting! At least it would, if ever remembered to do it.
What are your favorite pleasures?
Spending a whole day doing whatever I want. This does not happen very often because I work almost every day, but when it does: it’s heaven. I love creating things. I have recently taken up sewing again and signed up for a knitting course at the Volkshochschule, which I’m positively giddy about.
What would you like to receive for your birthday?
A voucher for a massage (not by the hands of the gift-giver, but a professional one!)
Cite three living artists whom you love.
“And in my opinion (until I change it), life is best filled by learning as much as you can about as much as you can, taking pride in whatever you’re doing, having compassion, sharing ideas, running(!), being enthusiastic. And then there’s love, and travel, and wine, and sex, and art, and kids, and giving, and mountain climbing … but you know all that stuff already.” Tim Minchin
“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?” Mary Oliver
“I want to be around people that do things. I don’t want to be around people anymore that judge or talk about what people do. I want to be around people that dream and support and do things.” Amy Poehler
What do you stick up for?
Everyone’s right to express their opinion and live the life they enjoy living – as long as they don’t deliberately hurt anyone in the process.
What are you capable of refusing?
Help, more often than I should, probably. I also got better at accepting or asking for it though!
What is the most fragile part of your body?
My knees. Everyone in my family has shitty knees and at 27, mine are starting to hurt with every step up or down a flight of stairs.
What has love made you capable of doing?
Accept mannerisms or opinions I don’t understand or agree with.
What do other people reproach you for?
I tend to make more plans and set more dates with others than I actually have time for and then end up cancelling or combining them. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn’t.
What does art do for you? Write your epitaph.
Give food for thought.. enable me to look at things through the artist’s emotional or cultural lens.
“Life is not about grand gestures but is best lived finding beauty and meaning in the mundane.”
In what form would you like to return?
Bird, I think. Would love to experience what flying feels like.
Hear, hear on playing the Sims for hours on end, the Headspace app, and pretty much all Lena said! Amazing, Lena! Thanks so much for taking part!