hope, january 2013, le love, read it love it, thought catalog

Words my heart needed to hear…

The fear of getting hurt again has only led you to hurt yourself. Come out now. Come out while there’s still some living left to be done. This person who hurt you doesn’t deserve to still dictate your life decisions. Your discipline and dedication to structure is an illusion. You’re still powerless because you’re letting certain incidents define your life. If you really want to be in control again, you have to learn to let go again. It’s the only way. The Fear Of Getting Hurt Again by Ryan O’Connell

…and words that describe how my heart feels right now.
If life can be made more beautiful with generosity, and care, and affection, there is no reason to stifle it or keep it in some confused concept of moderation. With generosity, there can always be more.
I know that all of these things make me better. And I know that I am better when I am around you, and that the real goal is to learn how to apply these lessons and desires and streaks of unabashed confidence to every aspect of my life. I should be just as generous with friends, just as confident at work, just as forgiving of my daily stresses as I am when you are with me. Because that, I think, is the greatest gift we can ever give another person: To see that life can be lived more beautifully and more honestly, and that you don’t even need to be in love to do it.The Way I Am Around You by Chelsea Fagan
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11 thoughts on “Words my heart needed to hear…

  1. Ah, yes, fear: the great paralyzer. That's a wonderful quote; I appreciate you sharing it. (I needed to hear it too this week.) I don't want certain incidents to define my life, but when they've cut deep, I'm just like, “Shit! How do I get out of here?!!”

    I like to think that these (less-than-ideal) circumstances provide a well. The deeper the pain/hurt, the deeper the well. But, once we turn the corner, we get to fill up our proverbial wells with what you talk about: generosity, affection, etc. And so with empathy, we share those sentiments that others need us to share…when they are in a less-than-ideal situation.

    I could also be a moron, and therefore none of this could be true. I'm still glad you've shared some great quotes.

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  6. That was beautiful. I Tweeted that bottom half, because I've definitely witnessed it myself in certain people I work with and people I love, and it's a beautiful thing. And I need to exercise it more myself.

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